For some of us, one of our biggest challenges is loving ourselves! It is so important that we reguarly tune-up our self-esteem.
If you need a self-love boost or know anyone who might, check out my feature, 10 Ways to Honor Thyself, on the front page of Beliefnet.com today!
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By Laurie Sue Brockway
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You have been blessed with the gift of love, and you are getting married. Congratulations!
There is nothing holier than two people uniting in the spirit of committed love. It increases the love that exists in the world. And it brings healing to our world.
So how is it that something so magnificent and meaningful can involve the planning of an event that can drive even the sanest and sweetest brides to be to the brink of despair?
It is not unusual to feel exhausted by the sheer amount of labor and emotional negotiating that goes on around planning a wedding. It’s supposed to be the happiest time of your life… and you want it to be … yet many brides and grooms feel confused and let down that they are not feeling happy all the time …
Sigh. Today’s wedding culture places the focus on the “event” rather than the “marriage “and many unsuspecting brides and grooms find themselves sucked into the vortex of wedding stress. You might find yourself buried in wedding tasks … overwhelmed rather than overjoyed!
The planning … the people-pleasing … the coordinating … the financing … the family dynamics … and then there are those very natural, yet ornery, fears and concerns about getting hitched. These can all become quite a challenge.
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Here's a cool quote for enhancing self esteem and self appreciation.
"I want you to look in the mirror and say:
I accept myself unconditionally.
I am enough.
I do enough.
I have enough.'"
- Dr. Christiane Northrup
By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
from Wedlok.com
Looking for true love? Dreaming of meeting your soulmate? Or hoping to spruce up or heal your exisiting relationship?
Here's a special technique for letting the universe know you are ready for love:
Write a wish list of attributes that you look forward to experiencing in a relationship with your true love. Writing is a powerful way to turn dreams into reality. Written words make our goals clearer. They make our intentions firmer.
The list of relationship attributes can be anything you sincerely choose. For example:
* When we look at each other it feels like we are the only two people in the universe.
* My partner sincerely encourages my success.
* Together we create financial security and always have more than enough.
* We share the same or similar spiritual beliefs
* We love doing the same things.
* We have many spiritually aware friends.
Etc., etc. etc.....
Add to your list as new things come to you. Read it at least once a day for 30 days. This will reinforce these qualities and help you to write them across your heart.
To empower your own journey, do a good deed, and pray for others in search of love, or who seek healing for their relationships.
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway will answer your questions and help relieve wedding stress. Please e-mail your questions and wedding challenges to The Wedding Goddess.
By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Author, Your Perfect Wedding Vows
Personal wedding vows are a wonderful way to express your love on your wedding day.
Contained within those vows are the seeds of dreams to come true, and intentions for your married life. For many people, vows are the hallmark of the wedding ceremony. Imprinted in many of a mind is the romantic image of a loving couple looking deeply into one another’s eyes and calmly vowing their love and devotion on their wedding day.
Why then do many brides and grooms find themselves in the not-so-romantic mode of tearing their hair out at the 11th hour trying to transport feelings from their hearts and minds onto a blank piece of paper?
Because even though love may come naturally, vow writing or public speaking may not. Writer’s block and performance anxiety about wedding vows are not uncommon. It can be little scary when you think of pouring your heart out on paper, and then speaking it to you beloved in front of everyone you know.
It’s important to realize that personalized vows are meant to provide a sacred moment in which you can express your truest feeling for each other. When you are speaking to one another at the altar, you really do go into an “altered state” and the rest of the world fades away.
The vows you speak don’t have to be personally written – rather, you can “borrow” them from other sources. They are not meant to be a theater piece to impress or entertain others. And they should not stress you out! However, if the thought petrifies you, give some thought to how much you each want to speak during the wedding, or if you feel you will be too nervous to utter more than “I do!.
If you are up for exchanging vows, would you prefer traditional, classic vows, or more modern and personal vows? If you will be married in a traditional religious ceremony, you may be asked to speak classic traditional religious vows. In a non-denominational or interfaith ceremony, you can be more creative. Always speak with your officiant in advance about where vows fit into your ceremony. Whenever possible, select an officiant who will support you in expressing vows the way you feel most comfortable.
Ways to say I love you. There are many ways to weave vows into your ceremony. For example, your vows can be repeat-after-the-officiant style or they can be read to one another. You can utter them as part of your I dos, or speak them when you exchange rings. You can each decide on different vow, or share the same vows. You can even speak the same vow to one another simultaneously; or you can read from one long vow or statement, with bride and groom alternating lines. If you don’t want to say much, you can include the promises you would like to make in a longer question of intent, to which you only have to answer “I do.” Never try to memorize your vows. On your wedding day, the mind goes into Wedding La-La Land … it is too much to ask of yourself.
Creative and sacred ways to express your commitment. You can find your vows in poetry, popular songs or even greeting cards. You can also source ideas from the faiths or cultures you were born into. For example, from the Jewish tradition you might want to use the soulful line from Song of Solomon, “I am my beloveds, and my beloved it mine” or talk about the concept of soul mates from the Zohar or the Bible. Some couples adapt vows from the 7 Steps (known as Saptapadi) in the Hindu faith, such as “We will share each other’s joys and sorrows with courage and strength.” You can find lovely material from any spiritual tradition and adapt it into your vows.
Write your own vows. If you do want to write your own vows, take a moment to reconnect to the energy and magic that made you want to marry this person, and let the feelings flow. Jot down some notes:
1. What do you love about this man/woman?
2. What feeling pour over you when you think of his/her love for you?
3. What are your hopes and dreams for your married life?
4. What promises would you like to make?
Next, write a first draft. Begin by sharing why you love him/her (including cute and funny reasons) and letting him/her know how he/she makes you feel. Next, share things you look forward to experiencing together. Sprinkle in promises you would like to make. Summarize by sharing how grateful you are for his/her love and the opportunity to share your lives. Then go through the first draft; edit or add in new thoughts. Don’t be afraid to use humor – if that’s your style. (“I promise never to change the channel when the Yankee’s are on,” for example).
Speak from the heart: No matter what kind of vows you choose let your sentiments come from the heart. They do not have to be long. Approach them with a K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple, Sweetheart) and make them real. Those are the BEST wedding vows.
You'll find sample wedding vows in Your Perfect Wedding Vows E-book by Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway.
Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway will answer your questions and help relieve wedding stress. Please e-mail your questions and wedding challenges to The Wedding Goddess.
Include Mom in Your Wedding, Give Her A Rose
Dear Wedding Goddess - My father is not comfortable "giving me away"with my mother. They are divorced. Rather than have her escort me down the aisle, how can I honor my mother in a special way? -- Disappointed
There is a non-denominational tradition of offering flowers to the moms, or to significant family members that might be fitting. It is called "Family Unity Rose Ceremony."
Usually, the bride and groom give a red and white rose – colors that represent unity -- each to their moms. It is particularly nice if bride and groom each give one flower to each mom, followed with a hug. This would also be a good time to publicly acknowledge your moms and thank them. Here is an example of one cermony I officiated.
As this bride and groom come before us to be married, they wish to acknowledge and thank their families for their love and support. As a gesture of unity between the families that are united on this day … and as an acknowledgement of the special people who have loved and nurtured this bride and groom … they will present a very special gift of flowers to their mothers.
Couple present roses to their mom's.
With these flowers, they welcome one another's families into the new family that is created by their marriage today. These flowers symbolize the love this bride and groom feel for each other extended to their loved ones ... and they are also symbolic of the merging of two families in love and unity.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Listen to Meditation for Stressed Out Brides
You have been blessed with the gift of love, and you are getting married. Congratulations!
There is nothing holier than two people uniting in the spirit of committed love. It increases the love that exists in the world. And it brings healing to our world.
So how is it that something so magnificent and meaningful can involve the planning of an event that can drive even the sanest and sweetest brides to be to the brink of despair?
It is not unusual to feel exhausted by the sheer amount of labor and emotional negotiating that goes on around planning a wedding. It’s supposed to be the happiest time of your life -- and you want it to be -- yet many brides and grooms feel confused and let down that they are not feeling happy all the time.
Sigh. Today’s wedding culture places the focus on the “event” rather than the “marriage “and many unsuspecting brides and grooms find themselves sucked into the vortex of wedding stress. You might find yourself buried in wedding tasks, overwhelmed rather than overjoyed!
The planning … the people-pleasing … the coordinating … the financing … the family dynamics … and then there are those very natural, yet ornery, fears and concerns about getting hitched. These can all become quite a challenge.
That’s why it is essential that you also make sure you take time out to de-stress, decompress and reconnect to the sacred nature of the journey you are on.
Finding true love and getting married is really is quite a blessing -- if only you have a chance to enjoy it!
When wedding planning sends you inter overdrive, take some time out. It is important to nourish yourself and restore yourself to a state of mindfulness and presence in your relationship and your life. Sometimes you just need a wake up call for your bridal soul … a reminder that what this whole “wedding thing” is truly about is sacred union with your beloved.
Although weddings can be stressful, they can also be very healing. It’s a chance to dress up and party with friends and families … and you should enjoy that! It is also a time of gathering people together in the spirit of love.
Most importantly, your wedding is the sacred threshold to the life you will share as a married couple.
When wedding craziness gets the best of you, leave it behind and do something else. See a movie, take a warm bath, cuddle up with your honey, looking into his eyes, or join me in this meditation to help you release the stressors and remember the sacred:
Click for my free wedding "Meditation for Stressed Out Brides" at Beliefnet.com
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Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway answers your questions and helps relieve wedding stress. Please e-mail your questions, wedding challenges and column ideas to The Wedding Goddess.
By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Although weddings can be stressful, they can also be very healing. Sure, your wedding is a chance to dress up and party with friends and families … and you should enjoy that! It is also a time of gathering people together in the spirit of love.
Most importantly, your wedding is the sacred threshold to the life you will share as a married couple.
Here are some tips for holding it together, relieving wedding stress and staying close:
1. Recognize that it is easy to get sucked into the vortex of wedding planning stress, and overwhelmed by pressure and expectations of those around you.
You’ve got to include stress management, self-nurturing, and time to chill out as an integral part of the wedding planning process. Do things that help you stay centered.
2. Realize that everyone has something to say about your wedding. You’ll be showered with congratulations and gifts, and bombarded with unsolicited advice.
Make an agreement to make decisions together, and back each other up. Support each other!
3. It is a rare family that does not have a “Debbie Downer” who throws a little wrench into your wedding plans.
You have to set clear boundaries, and also learn to deflect the sometimes-negative vibes from well-meaning friends and relatives. You can’t please all the people all of the time… so please yourselves.
4. Getting married can stir up a lot of emotions. The process itself sets forth period of growth and change that can be nerve -wracking. Unresolved emotions may come to the surface to be explored.
Be prepared to do some inner work along with all the external preparations. Honor and address the fears that arise. Trust they are natural.
5. Our culture places a tremendous emphasis on having a great wedding and not enough on having an awesome marriage. It's okay to be temporarily obsessed and yearn for the perfect wedding -- but you have to keep your eye on what's truly important.
Don’t give the wedding day so much power! Step back and realize, the most important part of the day is not the day itself ... but that you leave the altar in the arms of the One you love … the One you look forward to building your life with.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
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The best wedding present any couple can receive is a roadmap to their future--a marriage manual prepared especially for them.
This is a book that utilizes wisdom gained in the past yet casts and eye toward their future. It outlines what marriage will be like, how they can sidestep or deal with relationship and family issues, the path they will travel together, and what to do to keep love alive in times when life challenges the vows you make on your wedding day.
It would be something that paints a picture for the future they choose to share -- with words and images.
This is not a gift provided by your minister, priest, rabbi or family. Although clergy and loved ones may help you along, it is something that a couple must create for themselves. Your personal marriage manual is based on who you are as individuals, who you will become as a couple and what you plan to create together.
It's something that would include and acknowledge your vulnerable spots and provide a sense of direction in times of challenge. Although life throws its curves, a loving marriage, with a solid commitment as its foundation, can weather more than you'd imagine when you start off with a game plan and map out your intentions for the future. And it can be fun!
What you need: Buy a loose leaf note book, white and colorful loose leaf paper, scissors, glue and some pretty pens. Treat your manual like a very special homework assignment. You can do some of your writing on the computer, and later insert those pages in the manual, or write directly in the book, depending on what’s most comfortable for you both.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Editor of Wedlok.com
Step One: Create a Mission Statement for Your Marriage
The first step of any new enterprise is to create a mission statement. This applies to your marriage, as well.
Brainstorm, discuss, process and bat around ideas until you come up with a "Marriage Mission Statement."
This will represent your mutual intention for marriage; what you want to be and build together. It can have one sentence or reflect a number of ideas. Example:
Our union gives us strength, power and fortitude to deal with all of life’s ups and downs, and it empowers us to contribute to others and the world. We are best friends, confidantes and partners, and we have many close relationships with people we consider "spiritual family." We are a couple who inspire others with our love and who model what it is to be in a great relationship.
Make a list of all the things you want your marriage to be, then blend them together in a clear, cohesive statement.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Editor of Wedlok.com
Step Two: Expand your Vows
The vows you speak at your wedding may tend to be romantic, and on the short side. They are the foundation of your married life so give the wedding vows you exchange on the day you marry a special page of honor in your manual. Over time, you can expand them into a longer definition of your intentions for marriage.
You can add in all the things you thought of afterwards, or the things that were too personal to share in public. These are very personal statements the two of you can come up with together. For example:
• We treat our love as sacred and we are responsible for managing our relationship.
• While we include others in our circle of love, we never take our issues outside the relationship, or talk negatively about each other to relatives because this dissipates our sacred bond.
• We consult each other on all major life issues, purchases and plans and yet give one another freedom and space to be individual and do our own thing.
Add in anything that you desire or want to build into your relationship. Over time, add to the vows as your learn more about what you both hold dear in married life.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Editor of Wedlok.com
Step Three: Make a Life Plan and Put It in Writing
Sound unromantic? You'll be glad to have something in writing if you find yourself flailing about during that first year, wondering "is this how married life is supposed to be?" Make it fun to commit to your lives together on paper.
• A couple can create a book of wish lists and dreams as well as a timeline for their future: In a year we'll have a house; in five years a child. But is can also contain the more emotional and spiritual aspects of life together: we'll go to church or synagogue together; we'll spend 10 minutes every day just gazing into one another's eyes, etc. It may not be completely perfect, and some goals might take longer than others to achieve, but in the process of planning together, you will get to know more about each other, and get a sense of those areas where you are likely to disagree or need personal space.
• Freedom for each partner to pursue their own dreams must also be part of your plan, so that you each have the flexibility to pursue personal career goals and interests. Include three timelines and make them flexible – make them "within" a certain time line, instead of "by" a certain amount of time.
• The headings can be: Within One Year, Within Five Years and Within Ten Years. Be realistic but dare to dream. For example, if you know you want a house but do not have the funding, don’t pressure yourselves or be unrealistic by placing it in the "within one year" timeline. Give yourselves five years. That way, you can still focus on it, and maybe even attain it in a year … but without undue pressure.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Editor of Wedlok.com
Step Four: Picture Your Future
Visual language is powerful. Craft a visual treasure map to help create the future you want to share.
Cut photos from magazines that illustrate the essence of your ideal life together and paste them in your personal marriage manual. Superimposed photos of yourself in a picture of that fabulous vacation spot, or cut out a happy family picture that represents how you'd like it to be, with the number of kids you’d like to have.
Visual cues give strong messages to the subconscious. Working together to find the images, and placing them in the book, will begin to expand your picture of life together.
These images are as powerful as prayers. In fact, they are visual prayers.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Editor of Wedlok.com
Step Five: Document the Good Times to Create More
Establish rituals that make you both feel loved and happily married.
In his book, Soul Mates, Thomas Moore talks of those little life rituals that make the soul feel content. These are usually mundane yet sacred elements of living that keep the two of you connected, keep your dreams alive and accentuate your togetherness. It's these things – a call from the office every day, a romantic dinner at home on Fridays, going to your favorite restaurant or Inn once a year – that keep you both aligned with the goals you set forth.
List these in your manual as things that you do with, and for, each other. And document them with memory pages – ticket stubs, a post card of a special locale, a menu from a restaurant where you had a romantic dinner. When you establish loving rituals to look forward to, they will never become boring.
These little rituals become a part of who you are, together.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Editor of Wedlok.com
Step Six: Include Plans To Help Hold on During with the Challenges
As Ann Morrow Lindbergh put it, "When you love someone you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment... and yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of the tide of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return."
To help deal with the terror that we all feel when it seems a mate is slipping away emotionally, come up with a "slip-proof" plan for marital ebbs.
• For example, formulate an agreement, such as: We will communicate to one another in a common love language; we'll each have a chance to air our feelings uninterrupted; we'll reach out for help from a special support person or an impartial party if the relationship is in trouble.
• While you do not want to focus all your energy on "what can go wrong," it is a good idea to acknowledge upfront that not every day will reflect the joy and union of your wedding day. What will you do on those days when you cannot see the divine light in one another? How will you find your way back home, to each other?
• No one knows your relationship, and your way of processing and healing relationship issues, like the two you. So set forth some guidelines or ground rules for healing your marital differences – before then happen – to the best of your ability. You will undoubtedly learn new things and improved ways to heal as your marriage goes on; add them in over time.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Editor of Wedlok.com
Step Seven: Regularly Recommit To Your Marriage
Include some wonderful ways to celebrate and recommit to love in your personal Marriage Manual. You can celebrate and regenerate your love at every phase.
• Collect romantic readings and poetry that reflect your feelings for one another.
• Recommitment ceremonies, or renewal of vows ceremonies, are a great way to re-stimulate and re-live your original wedding vows – long after you've taken that walk down the aisle. If you ever doubt your marriage but still have faith in your love, you can "awaken" your marriage by renewing your original vows and/or creating or adding new ones. As life changes, so will your intentions for marriage.
• You can have a catered affair, just invite a few friends over to celebrate, or simply hold a private ceremony between the two of you.
• You don’t have to throw a party and hold a new ceremony in order to recommit your love. You can renew your commitment in a very simple and loving way. It can be as simple as reading a poem to each other before bed one night and declaring your love. One couple reads and re-reads their wedding vows every night before bed. Then they re-seal them with a kiss!
• This excerpt from Song of Solomon, in the Old Testament, is a beautiful example of selecting words that are simple, yet powerfully honor and express your love. You can just look each other in the eyes, hold hands and say: "I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine." And so it is.
Every time you experience a ritual that declares your love, it’s like giving your love, your life, and your marriage a new infusion of energy or, even, a fresh start.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Wedding Goddess Wisdom
Newly engaged! Congratulations. What a great way to start off the new year.
Don’t wait until the wedding day to take pictures. A camera is a must-have accessory. Whether you get a good camera or a bunch of disposables doesn’t matter.
Just find a way to capture the images of your wedding planning journey and have pictures developed and placed in an album as your journey to the altar proceeds. Having a record of your joy – and all efforts and emotions – will be a fun thing to look back on when it is all said and done and will help you realize how much love and effort you have put into your wedding.
While you are planning the big day, it is a great pick me up that you can go through times of doubt or stress.
Collect memories through photos and memorabilia (such as receipts, menus, match covers). Have the photos developed as you go along and create a truly meaningful wedding journey memory book.
Alternatives and additions: Keep a wedding journal of feelings and experiences, including the ups and downs; have fun documenting the wedding planning journey on video tape.
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By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
Excerpted from Wedding Goddess
Self care is as essential as breathing for a bride-to-be -- especially when you are stressing about wedding planning!
It is the time spent nurturing yourself, taking care of your unique needs and consciously preparing yourself for marriage that will make your journey to the altar so much more enjoyable and graceful. While planning your wedding -- and managing the myriad of responsibilities, relationships and emotions that come along with the package -- it is truly important that you try not to cut corners on nurturing yourself!
There is so much pressure on a bride to please others while planning her wedding that sometimes she forgets to take care of her own needs. My friend Dr. Patti Britton, a relationship coach, suggests for a happier trip down the aisle, it pays to be a little selfish. She calls it “extreme self care.”
Some brides get so caught up in the preparation – and things to do – along with the pressures from others that they are afraid to slow down for a little “me time.” Britton suggests that if you feel guilty about being selfish with your time and energy,give the word a new meaning. Take each letter of the word and imbue it with a more expansive and positive definition. Here’s an example:
S Nurture your SPIRIT.
E ENJOY moments alone.
L LOVE yourself.
F Keep FIT and FEEL good.
I Make your unique needs IMPORTANT.
S SHOWER yourself with gifts.
H Be HAPPY and open-HEARTED as you plan your wedding.
Fortunately, brides today are blessed with many options for self care. Massage, facials, manicures, pedicures and other beauty treatments are a standard part of the bride’s ritual preparation for her wedding day. Many brides include dieting, fitness and exercise in the months before the wedding. Go beyond the typical and into the realm of the fabulous by making traditional pampering more meaningful … and by seeking self-expression, physical exercise, emotional support and spiritual pursuits that massage her spirit and exercise her soul.
Photo by Lensgirl, reprinted from Wedding Goddess.
Continue reading "Words of Wisdom for Stressed Out Brides - Find a New Way to Be S.E.L.F.I.S.H." »
By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway
These days, brides get married to the wedding before they get married to their mates. With so many choices and so much stress, it is easy to get lost in planning a great wedding and forget to focus on building a great marriage!
Here are some Wedding Goddess tips for stepping into married life with strenght and wisdom:
1. Be aware that getting married can stir up a lot of emotions. The process itself sets forth period of growth and change that can be very nerve -wracking. Once you decide to marry you will begin the process of getting ready for marriage … and unresolved emotions may come to the surface to be explored. Be prepared to do some inner work along with all the external preparations. Honor and address the emotions and fears that arise. Trust they are natural. Don't sweep things under the rug. There are things you can do in addition to pre-marital counseling.
2. Ask yourselves, and each other, A LOT of questions. Don't assume that married life will be the same as single life. And don't be afraid to get to know each other's truest feelings. It is important that you you delve into everything from how you'll raise your kids, to what kind of color scheme you want in your home, to how you will spend free nights at home once the wedding is over. Many brides and grooms tend to want to avoid the deep talks, and dwell on the surface aspected of getting married. Your married life will be a lot smoother if you communicate with and listen to. Be willing to hear things you may not like and agree with... find ways to compromise or give in to one another.
3. Picture Your Future. In addition lots of questions and thoughtful answers, begin to think about and visualize the life you want to share. What will it look like? What will your new roles be like? What kind of home and family life do you home to have. Although it is fun to day dream, it is very practical to give thought and vision to the life you want to create. You might even want to create a treasure map or a book of choices to guide you.
Continue reading "Beyond the Wedding - Tips For a Healthy Marriage" »
The media is full of reports of giddy engaged couples looking forward to getting hitched in Las Vegas on Saturday.
July 7, 2007 is being billed as the luckiest day of the century.
This week’s In Business Las Vegas in its column on tourism and gaming published an article titled An anniversary to remember that provides just a little insight into how crazy Saturday will be for local wedding chapels and officiants.
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